Planning Ahead - The Time is Now

How many times have you ever said, "I wish I had started sooner"? This simple phrase rings especially true - like a loud alarm bell - when it comes to managing aging care for others, or for yourself. While most people don't want to dwell on moving to a senior living community, ignoring the changes that come with age don't make them go away.

Start with a simple no-pressure conversation.

Even if you're simply helping an older friend or loved one with starting to have uncomfortable conversaions, you will probably start thinking of these issues as they apply to your own life; and if so, good for you! These issues are pertinent for people who are considering a senior living community, as well as really any adult no matter the age or level of health. So let's get started.

How Do You Want Your Life to Unfold?

Start digging into some of the nitty-gritty of what you want your life to look like. Do you want to take walks outside each day? Do you care for beloved pets? Are you committed to a church or nonprofit where you volunteer? Now, how do you see the importnat aspects of your life integrated into a new place to live?

Take A Look Around Your Home Today and Start Evaluating.

Most people look at their overstuffed closets and garages bursting at the seams and wonder, "How did I end up with all this stuff?" Now's the time to evaluate what you need versus what you're holding simply out of habit, or to keep from hurting someone's feelings who gave you something. Don't pressure yourself to clean everything out now... at this point we're just thinking. So start thinking about the things you really must have...and consider what can go away.

Paperwork, Paperwork, Paperwork

• Do you have a will? Maybe you had one when your kids were little, so is it even relevant any more? Maybe it's time to write one or to update the one you have. Start looking online about how to write a will, just to get the mental juices going. You don't need to write one today - but this is too important to delay.

• Do you have a POA - Power of Attorney? Again, this is something every adult should have - a trusted person who can act as you just in case something happens and you are unable to make decisions. This does not happen automatically - you must make it happen. Don't worry, it's not difficult.

• Do you have a living will or healthcare power of attorney? This allows you to have agency over how you will be treated medically in case you're unable to communicate your wishes. Taking care of this sensitive subject is a great gift you give to the people around you, as they don't need to guess or be burdened with decisions that should really be make by you.

Bucket List Items

Have you always wanted to visit the Statue of Liberty or Ocho Rios or New Orleans? Maybe you have been wanting to dine at the swanky restaurant two towns over, or go fish the inshore creeks with a guide. The time is now. Pick one item on your bucket list - start small - and do it. You keep saying "one of these days..." and today's the day.

See, It's Not All Bad....

Planning ahead involves actions that can be fun, tedious, boring and emotional. Give yourself permission to feel your feelings. And enjoy the sense of relief you feel when you take action. You earned it.